Lawyer Talking to a Divorce ClientDivorce rates in the United States recently reached record highs. For many divorcees, single life, dating, and re-marriage offer the promise of new beginnings. However, statistics suggest that the second time is not always the charm, with recent reports estimating that some 60% of second marriages will eventually end in failure. Unfortunately, a second divorce is often no easier than the first—for many people, subsequent separations are often all the more difficult.

Why Re-Marriage Is so Likely to End in Failure

The United States has a notoriously high divorce rate. While younger generations seem to be staying married for longer, researchers nonetheless expect that half of all marriages eventually end in separation. When people re-marry, they typically fare even worse: anywhere between 60% and 70% of second marriages result in divorce, with third and fourth marriages having even lower odds of success.

After the initial divorce, re-married Americans might face some of the following difficulties:

  • If one spouse repeats the same mistakes that led to their last divorce, they might struggle to maintain their new relationship.
  • Older adults are more likely to have their own children from previous partnerships, potentially complicating their ability to build an independent life.
  • People sometimes re-marry soon after separating from their last spouse, leaving them inadequate time to truly connect with their new partner.

During a second or third divorce, spouses might have to take on additional financial responsibilities, including alimony and child support. Unfortunately, these new responsibilities will not override any similar arrangements remaining from the last marriage—leaving a second or third-divorced spouse burdened by an ever-accumulating mountain of debt.

How a Second Divorce Could Complicate Your Life

A second divorce could be particularly devastating, especially in regard to your:

Financial Assets

Divorce is an inherently divisive process—and one that almost always has the potential to be very, very expensive. Since second divorces are most likely to occur when many adults have become comfortable in their careers and established some semblance of financial stability, second-time divorcees risk losing more assets during and after separation.

Your second divorce could affect assets, including:

  • Your cash accounts
  • Your investment portfolio
  • Your retirement savings
  • Your home

Real Properties

If you own a home, share a mortgage, or have jointly divided any other properties with your second spouse, they will need to be divided before the final divorce settlement is approved. Depending on the circumstances of your divorce, your partner could ask the court to grant them a greater-than-equal share of both your financial assets and your real properties.

Child Support Payments

If you have children from your second marriage, you may need to arrange child support payments for the custodial parent. However, you might still be paying child support from your last marriage, too.

Unfortunately, the court could court neglect your existing financial obligations—especially if your income has increased, or if any of your children are very young

Alimony Obligations

If your spouse is financially dependent on you for income or support, the court could order you to pay alimony. Unlike some other states, New York does not require that a marriage have lasted for a certain number of years before alimony can be awarded. However, the length of your marriage will likely determine how much support your spouse is entitled to receive. For example:

  • If you have been married for anywhere between 0 and 15 years, your spouse could receive alimony for a period of time not exceeding the equivalent of 30% of the duration of the marriage
  • If you have been married for anywhere between 15 and 20 years, your spouse could receive alimony for the equivalent of 30-40% of the duration of the marriage
  • If you have been married for 20 years or more, your spouse could receive alimony for the equivalent of 35 to 50% of the duration of the marriage
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